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    Is it safe to ask a friend if she was ever interested?

    Posted a few days ago about this particular girl, but one specific question is asking if she ever waited for me to make a move. She was flirty with me, always looked to talk, and text me. After a while it died down.

    I'm constantly having my phone next to me, since I hardly see her now, it's been tough. Trying to take my mind off of it. I'm not too good with subliminal, and feel pissed at myself. I feel she got bored of me.

    I have been wanting to text her for the past couple of weeks, going on 3 weeks now. This blows..

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    Whaddya mean "safe"? Is she gonna come after you with a machete? Prolly not. Is she gonna cut ties with you? Maybe... but whaddya got to lose?

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    Quote Originally Posted by HeartIsAching View Post
    Whaddya mean "safe"? Is she gonna come after you with a machete? Prolly not. Is she gonna cut ties with you? Maybe... but whaddya got to lose?
    Closest friend I had in a long time.

    I gotta be surgical with whatever I say. Expressing yourself to women is like diffusing a bomb. Cut the wrong wire and your screwed..

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    It sounds like the friendship may be over anyway. But you should ask yourself if you really want to know the answer before you ask. It may be better to just leave things alone if you think you might be troubled by what you hear.
    “This planet has - or rather had - a problem, which was this: most of the people living on it were unhappy for pretty much of the time. Many solutions were suggested for this problem, but most of these were largely concerned with the movement of small green pieces of paper, which was odd because on the whole it wasn't the small green pieces of paper that were unhappy.” ― Douglas Adams, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy

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    Quote Originally Posted by VerticalMoon View Post
    It sounds like the friendship may be over anyway. But you should ask yourself if you really want to know the answer before you ask. It may be better to just leave things alone if you think you might be troubled by what you hear.
    I'm kind of use to the answer "no"..

    And I hope your wrong about the friendship. I'm not just some toy, I'm a person. I'd never pretend to care about someone else and switch after that. It has been done to be before, and worse, I was used at the same time..

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    Quote Originally Posted by EastS1der View Post
    Closest friend I had in a long time.

    I gotta be surgical with whatever I say. Expressing yourself to women is like diffusing a bomb. Cut the wrong wire and your screwed..
    You mean defusing?

    No, you don't have to be precise. What you do have to be is clear.

    For example: "I really enjoy spending time with you, and I'd like to be more than just friends. How do you feel about it?"

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