It sounds like the friendship may be over anyway. But you should ask yourself if you really want to know the answer before you ask. It may be better to just leave things alone if you think you might be troubled by what you hear.
“This planet has - or rather had - a problem, which was this: most of the people living on it were unhappy for pretty much of the time. Many solutions were suggested for this problem, but most of these were largely concerned with the movement of small green pieces of paper, which was odd because on the whole it wasn't the small green pieces of paper that were unhappy.” ― Douglas Adams, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy