Just got back from a date and really confused... need some opinions please :)

[tonystarkben]

Thanks for reading...I'm in a bit of a tizzy and not sure what to think so need an outside perspective...

I met a girl in a bar a couple of weeks ago. She seemed lovely and we took photos and she put her number in my phone. We spoke for a few days and i asked her to dinner.

We went out on a nice date and i got her flowers. She was so pleased as she said she had never been on a date or gotten flowers before. I'm quite old fashioned and do little things like hold doors open and she tells me i'm a real gentleman and she has always wanted that but the only guys she met seemed to be jerks. She said she wanted a relationship and not flings, she just never found the right guy.

We had another couple of dates this week and all seemed good.

Today we went to the zoo and she asked if it was ok ( in the week) if her little sister came along as she was babysitting her. I said of course and i went over and met her parents and we went to the zoo.

Most of the day she seemed quiet and distant and she was telling me a little about how she has her barriers up as she doesn't want to get hurt and she got a text from her parents that said i was really nice and they don't know what she's worried about.

I asked her what they mean but she said it didn't matter, she maybe would tell me in time. I was joking around asking if she had met anyone else or if she had a secret child etc and she was laughing saying no, nothing like that, it's to do with her.

We had a nice rest of the day and i won her a cuddly elephant as it was her favorite and she did kiss me and all seemed ok but then she just said she was quite tired and i said i would take her home.

On the way home she was on the phone to her sister and she was arranging to go over when she got back. I admit i was quite disappointed as it seems the day was cut short and it now seems like she doesn't want to spend time with me, i thought we would spend the day together, not just 4 hours.

I took her home and she gave me a really long hug and kissed me goodbye and said thank you and mentioned maybe doing something tomorrow and to let me know i got home safe.

I'm home now and text her saying thanks for a lovely day - no reply, but i saw she's been on whats app so i'm sure she read it.

Just not sure what to think of it all... do you think maybe she's just not interested suddenly or something else is up? Just sucks as i was beginning to like her...

thanks for reading

[michelle23]

Doees she have a history of dating assholes? If yes get out now coz she prob has issues and your too nice for her. Shell get bored an run back to some prick who will treat her like dirt

[tonystarkben]

Doees she have a history of dating assholes? If yes get out now coz she prob has issues and your too nice for her. Shell get bored an run back to some prick who will treat her like dirt

No, she has been single for a while. Her last bf was okay but kept letting her down on plans last minute. Other guys she says are only after one thing...

[4 ratties]

She's just scared.. She said she's never been on a date or had a serious boyfriend (I assume), so she is probably a little scared and doesn't know what to do with all these new feelings.. You can either stick with her and win her trust, or find a girl who is a little more aggressive and not scared.. It's all up to you, if this girl is worth it, stay with it and see how it goes

[michelle23]

She prob has a fear of getting hurt. Maybe just go with the flow and see how you feel in a few weeks. If your still getting mixed signals then-move on

[smackie9]

Dude maybe she is not feeling any chemistry. Sure dates can go great, and you get along, but that doesn't mean things will go forward. I think you are jumping to conclusions, and should see how things go before you give up. Christ it's only been a few dates.