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    I am pregnant with my stepdad's baby?

    Okay, firstly can I say I don't want to be judged for this. Thanks.

    I am twenty one years old and I don't live at home at the moment. When I was seventeen and staying at home with my mum, she met a new guy, Matthew. I thought he was a cool guy from when I first met him and I was happy for my mum, but I didn't think it would last long as he is only 32 and she is in her mid-40's. But I was proved wrong, as only a couple of months after they met, they decided to take the plunge and he moved in. I'd just broken up with my boyfriend when he moved in so I was vulnerable I guess.

    My mum gets up really early for work and Matt doesn't start until midday so I often found myself cooking him breakfast. He used to flirt with me a little bit and I'd wink at him and say stuff like "Morning, sexy". But I wasn't being SERIOUS. However a couple of months after 'flirting' like this he gave me a smack on the bum. I was shocked but I didn't say anything because I thought it was funny. I didn't tell my mum about our morning flirtings while she was at work because I felt bad.
    A few weeks after that we kissed and I was so happy I forgot about my mum's feelings and we ended up sleeping together. I moved out shortly after because I felt it was for the best. But he continued coming round while my mum was at work. and sleeping with me. It was unprotected and it continued for a few months. I know it's terrible but I love him so much. I feel so bad.

    I felt nauseas one day and I feared the worst so I took a pregnancy test and there were two blue lines. I checked with the doctor and he confirmed my worst fears. I am only 2 weeks gone but I can't stand the thought of aborting my first child or sending him out for adoption. What should I do?

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    You're two weeks pregnant? I'm pretty positive it's not possible to find out that soon.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AbigailR View Post
    You're two weeks pregnant? I'm pretty positive it's not possible to find out that soon.
    Agreed. That was my first thought, too. The title of this post alone made me think troll. And he's not your Step Dad if he isn't married to your Mother. He's just your Mom's current boyfriend.

    You wouldn't be able to test for pregnancy till after your missed period, or thereabouts.

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    And wait...he moved in when you were 17? You're 21 now? I'm confused.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lalalita View Post
    And wait...he moved in when you were 17? You're 21 now? I'm confused.
    Troll......the time line is all wrong.

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    Ya it only adds up to about 6 1/2 months.

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    IF this is true, tell your mother the truth so she will dump him. Then decide whether you are keeping the baby or not..

    Guy sounds like a f**king perv but still your not stupid, you know the difference between right and wrong and you should have said no..

    What is up with these messed up men in their 30,s going after teenage girls? sick
    "Don't ask a question if you can't handle the answer".

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    Guys shouldn't troll about ANYTHING having to deal with women. Least of all pregnancy. lol

    Lesson to the other trolls. What a dumbass.

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    Wtf? At least get the story right. It was shot down before it got started. Dumb ass. Hahaha.

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