ended up dating for a 8 months. He went off with someone else but in the meantime spread lies and was downright nasty about things.
Got to ask whats missing in you, suefoo (no offence... really interested) that you'd even want to keep in contact through social media with this guy. Are you used to being in abusive relationships? Why would you want to go back for more.
To each their own but my self-respect wouldn't allow me to give him the time of day. He's gone for a lot of years now, keep him gone.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion