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    Terrible situation

    My girlfriend and I recently visited this older guy. He got us completely wasted, and suggested that he could help us have sex for the first time. We were too drunk and spaced out to tell him no. So he slept with my girlfriend and took her virginity in front of me. I got the rear view, and had to watch his ass humping away. He made her taste fishy down there, and I got his sloppy seconds when I put it in ...

    We both regret what happened, but couldn't bring ourselves to stop it. It just seems like something crazy that happened in an alternate reality. We've both reached the age of consent, and agreed to what he suggested. Is there any way we can fix our relationship after this? She says she still loves me, and that we should just put this behind us. I just feel we were completely humiliated. She got the morning after pill and he guaranteed he doesn't have any STDS, so there won't be any physical repercussion. It's the mental part that's difficult.

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    Uhhhh never go by what the hell this guy tells you. Both of you need to get tested, and then get tested again in 6 months.

    Anyways I suggest you both go seek out counseling. This man is a preditor and you both were sexually abused because you both were so imcompacitated you couldn't use your better judgement. IMO your GF was raped.

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    I call troll on this one.

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    I agree with namemyname

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    I agree with smackie. You guys need to report this and you both need to be tested for STDS. You should also seek counselling together.

    This guy is a predator and he needs to be locked up.

    Im sorry this happened. Dont blame each other, instead pull each other closer and get through this together
    "Don't ask a question if you can't handle the answer".

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    Troll maybe, but it also could be someone desperate for help.....I will go with help this time.

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    It may sound unrealistic but the first time we heard of peodifiles or rapists or jack the ripper it did too.
    Its wrong to automatically say troll.. I believe things like this do happen and it could be a very hurt teen crying out for help. Smh at you people
    "Don't ask a question if you can't handle the answer".

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    I don't get it. What's the terrible part?

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    Quote Originally Posted by BackUpOrGetStng View Post
    I don't get it. What's the terrible part?
    I think we have found the older guy.

    Actually, I think the fishy smell is coming from this story and we have been trolled.
    Good decisions come from experience. Experience comes from bad decisions.

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    Quote Originally Posted by VincenzoG91 View Post
    I think we have found the older guy.
    Shhhhhhhhh

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