What is Love

[iwamariu]

Hello.

To get right to the point, I am male 24y old.
I recently met a girl who is 30 years old mother. She have a 9month old baby and a boyfriend she is with only cose of baby.
She doesen't love her boyfriend but the child connects them. We have secret relationship for several months now.
At the beginning of our relationship there was just sex, but now, it has evolved into something a little more serious...
I really care about her, and how I see it, she feels the same for me...
I have understanding and patience ussualy, but this kind of relationship will destroy both of us sooner or later...
So without delay here is my question.
What do you think? Should I tell her to choose between a boyfriend or me, or leave her alone.
I care about her, and I'm ready to do the impossible for her. Also, I do not want to ruin her life eather...

Thank you.

[smackie9]

She's been lying to you. There is nothing wrong with her relationship with her BF, except she just a cheating cow. You are an idiot for getting involved with this.....run away as fast as you can.

[spacegal91]

ask her to marry u...
Sometimes the answer is just simple

[pcmaster]

If relationship have to be a secret you should not be in it.

[IslandScorp]

Leave her alone. This is a lose-lose situation for you. Even if she sincerely cares for you and you forced her to make a choice and she chooses you, her boyfriend, the father of her child, will never be completely out of your life. Think very carefully about what kind of life that's going to be for you. And if she's cheating on him, what makes you think that she won't do the same to you? Just based on what you've written, I have to say that I don't believe her when she says she's only with him because of the baby. I think that she's just cheating - plain and simple.