Are we friends or why won't he kiss me...?!

[Neuro]

Hi All,

It's been a few months since I have been dating, and feel I need you to know because I am completely unable to judge this myself.

I met a wonderful guy through some mutual friends. He asked me to go to a show with him, which I did. We had a great time, and he paid for the entire evening. A week later, he asked me to join him for a movie and dinner, which I did... which was followed by drinks and talking until 1am. Again, all on his bill. Then he asked when I would teach him how to play golf... so then we agreed to play golf and grab a bite (his suggestions) next week. However, last week he invited me to watch a football game with his friends. I went, we had a great time... his friends left... he skipped a class to hang out with me... and we did... for a whole 9 hours. Great conversation, great food... great drinks. At the end of the night he dropped me off at home and gave me a hug.

He was away over the weekend, and I have not heard from him. We said we'd do golf and food next week at some point. I mean... we hung out three times, all of which were amazing and the only reason I am mentioning that he paid for everything is because... well... usually friends split bills at some point. I am having a difficult time reading him... I don't want to read into this too much, but what do you think is maybe going on? We hung out three times... all of which were longer... all of which he asked to hang out more... and after the third time I still just get a hug...

If I am being neurotic girl who is reading into this too much, please let me know...but if I am not... and if you think I am at least a little right... please let me know in that case, too.

[Lord Darkshire]

He is one unsure guy....we have another guy on this forum that is so paranoid about making a move and being rejected. Some guys need more positive responses in order to feel confident to make a move.....you need to be more touchy feely, draw yourself closer to him, give him some signals.

[Neuro]

He is one unsure guy....we have another guy on this forum that is so paranoid about making a move and being rejected. Some guys need more positive responses in order to feel confident to make a move.....you need to be more touchy feely, draw yourself closer to him, give him some signals.

I have done that... I think. When I laugh I make sure to touch his arm/knee/shoulder... when he makes a joke, I do the same... not sure what else to do. I am also a total geek, so I am not good at this flirty thing. I know I am not pushing him away, and I don't have it in me to make the first move... what else can I do??!?