exgirlfriend trouble, any insight?

[DownNtOut]

we split up 11 months back,had been together for a year.
we met up at least once a month since the break up to go cinema,theatre and for coffees. we chatted about how our work was goin etc. we wud only meet up by ourselves.

i poured my heart out to my exgirlfriend last week. I told her i loved her and only wanted to be with her. She began to cry and told me another ex (from 4 years back) was looking to be with her again. She told me she needed time to think as she wasnt ready. i said that was ok that if i didnt hear from her, that i wud know.
she apoligised for sleeping with me 3 weeks ago.
(It felt to me like it wasnt a '****' it was tender. she stayed in bed with me till lunchtime, holding each other and kissing) It really mixed me up.


She text me 2 days after i spilled my guts to her. and said she had gone to dinner with the other ex again and decided to try going out with him for a month to see how it goes.

she said she didnt want to leave me hanging on. told me i was brave to drive to her town and put myself out there. she said she loved me but only in a 'friendship' 'companionship' way.


i text her back and said, 'id miss her. and to take care of herself.'

i unfriended her on fb and deleted her number.


were her tears just pity?

any comments appreciated

i dont understand.. such a mess ughhh

[basilandthyme]

Dude, I know you're hurting....but enough with the duplicate and triplicate threads. The advice you receive on this thread won't be any different to what we wrote a few days ago.