guys, how can i tell a nice guy that he is doing something i am allergic to and feel very ashamed of, without hurting his ego?
I am dating this dude for some time, in the beginnings i would try not to notice, but now it's just too much:
- he LOVES when others pay the bills
He does invite me out on dates and would pay but overall i invited him out more than he did. I would cook proper steaks and several entries meals, while he would prepare easy spaghettis with tomatoes.
Yet when we go out with friends, someone would order some food and he would eat the whole plate (even if it's not his plate!!). Or we (a group of friends) would each take turns in paying a round of drinks, and he would always disappear when it's his turn to pay.
He is in his 40s, has a very good job, loves dressing well... so i don't get this cheap money behavior.
Any idea how to tell him in a "nice way" he either has to change this shameful behavior or we're done?