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    I am getting too involved!! Help me

    Hi,

    As you people might know through my earlier threads, the foreigner girl is here and I am spending hell lot of time with her, to be specific, from almost the morning till 12:30 at night! In short I am getting too involved. I already like her sweetness and cute talks and I am sure, sooner or later, I will fall madly in love with her. Something that I do not want because I know I will never be able to tell this to her so she will choose someone else over me and I will be left with a severe heart break!!

    So how do I slowly get away from her? I can't resist myself from talking to her! I just can't stop myself.. so how and what can I do?

    Help me and save me from a terrible impending heart break!!

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    Oh just shut it. Just enjoy your time with her and have sex with her. You are young, there isn't time for all this mushy emotional crap....just think with your penis and you will be fine.

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    Seriously, she is too sweet to think rubbish about her!

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    Why cant you tell her how you feel?
    "Don't ask a question if you can't handle the answer".

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    How do I tell her?

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    By kissing her. Don't confess feelings to a girl unless there's been some sexual contact first.

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    I agree with the telling her by kissing her. You don't want to be confessing shit at this point. If she doesn't want you kissing her then just start zero contact to get over your current infatuation.
    “The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion

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    Sorry girls want to be sexually ravaged first, this builds emotional attachment.....they want a man to be a man, strong, confident, assertive, not a wishy washy love sick wuss.

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    Okay.. so what should I do exactly.. try to kiss her when I meet her and if she refuses I stop contacting her at all!!

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    ^^^ Well don't just jump on her like a lech or something. Snuggle up and do it when it feels right.
    “The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion

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    Ahh.. I met her in the morning and I guess she is too sweet and innocent so I don't want to freak her out by doing something silly. It's better I stay away from her because my other female friends tell me that she isn't in love with me!

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    Leave her alone, until you can stop being such a pussy.

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