What's going on?

[Chris39]

Long story short, my ex girlfriend and I broke up about a year ago due to long distance. I had just graduated college and moved away, we tried to make it work but it was too hard so we ended it. We had been dating and talking for about 9 months. After we broke up I went and visited her a few times and ended up having sex every time. She eventually started talking to another guy and we stopped talking for a few months. The other guy didn't last long for her and was never too serious. A couple months back, while she was studying abroad, she started texting me, asking how I was and talking about our past occasionally. I knew she was probably homesick and lonely and needed someone familiar to talk to, so I never read too much into it. Once she got back to the states she got an internship in a different state and moved there for the summer. She would occasionally drunk text me and one time demanded that I come hang out with her at three in the morning because she knew I was in the same city looking at apartments. Finally about 1 month ago, I was back in the area and went out with friends, she and her friends eventually met up with us at a club. This was the first time we had talked face to face in a long time so it was a little awkward. But she was all over me, holding my hand, kissing me, so we left and went to her place and hooked up. Next day she said it was a huge mistake blah blah blah. Now one week ago, pretty much the same thing happened but I hooked up with her 2 nights in a row. The second night she wasn't even drunk and kept following me around the bar talking, kissing me, same stuff. Kept talking about how I wasn't the best boyfriend and all this stuff. I apologized and told her how sorry I really was about things and wished that I had another chance with her. We went back together.

She says she doesn't want a boyfriend right now, which is ok. The thing I want to know is if she still has feelings for me but is just maybe scared to tell me sober? She's always been a girl who doesn't tell how she really feels right away. Her actions tell me one thing but then the next day acts real strange. What is going through her head? Even her close friend tells me she doesn't know what to think because the girl will say one thing but then will be all over me and talk about me to her friends.

Sorry for the essay

[anonymous_a]

Sounds like she's using you for sex and an emotional back burner. She wants to be single, meaning she will probably be sleeping with other guys as well. If you can handle this, great, keep it up. If not, you may want to break it off now before you invest too much more time into it.

[BackUpOrGetStng]

Do not do anything but have sex with her. That means you bust a nut, and then immediately start putting your clothes on to leave, or tell her it is time for her to go. If you can't handle treating her like garbage, then cease all contact. If you can handle it, you still need to bang other girls too.