Please help, I cant tell if he likes me ://

[Confusedteen]

Okay, so I have none him for around 6 months to a year, He is 3 years older than me and we didn't talk much in the beginning but as time went on we began to talk more and more. recently, maybe for like a month, Ive began to develop a bit of a crush on him but I literally can not read him. Normally I can tell when a guy likes me but I cant with him, i keep getting like mixed signs. Some days he talks to me a lot, other days we don't talk at all. When we do talk he does tease me a lot. He tends to make little jokes about my taste in clothes and my idea of hard classes. He has offered to tutor me, which i felt was a good sign? And when I was pushing something very heavy he offered to help me and I declined saying " i think i got this" I felt like i might have pushed him down too much but later he said he "was very impressed I could do it". And he usually all ways starts the conversations with me and stares at me right in the eyes and always smiles, Always!. But here is my biggest problem ..this only happens when I like a guy.. I become very stupid around him. I laugh more for really no reason and I make stupid comments and I feel like i am turning him off by this. I feel annoying when I do this and I can only imagine it annoys him also we were alone the other day and it was very quiet and kinda an awkward vibe to it. He seems to never have this with other people so I'm not sure if that's a sign he likes me or not? We did talk a bit during that time but I started it. And once we started talking it lightened up a bit. I feel like he may like me but I am messing it up And I just get so excited when he comes, I get butterflies and everything but sometimes we wont even say hi that day , I just cant tell. Thank you!!!

[Kromat83]

First of all, you need to stop getting nervous with him, just talk about things that interest
you, or things you’d like to get to know about him, if you have nothing to talk about.

I have got nervous around people too sometimes, but feel better, when what is coming out, seems genuine.

It’s only awkward, because no one initiates something, and both of you are over analyzing
the situation, think about what went right and wrong afterwards, but not at the moment, it should flow nicely.

Maybe try to get a new hobby, or read about current events, so there’s something to talk about, or what your friends and family might be doing, and what is his opinion about that, make it interesting, it’s all doable, it’s just the approach that needs to be worked on
and it’ll come with time and you’ll always seem interesting.

P.S. I'll be in the chat room for a bit, if you have any questions to ask.

[Confusedteen]

Thank you! I will definitely try that but also, do you think from what I've said that he is even interested? Thank you!!

[Kromat83]

it does seem like he likes you in a way, maybe you should flirt with him a little and see if he backs away or accepts it.
Also, do small talk like do you like spending time with me ? If you don't want to lose him, make talks if he has a girlfriend and what he is looking for and would he consider someone like yourself.
You have to show him that your interested and read his body language.

[Confusedteen]

Okay! Thanks so much! I will definitely try all the things that you have told me.

[surfhb2]

Generally, Guys don't make an effort unless they are interested

Put that in your bong and smoke it

[Confusedteen]

Haha that's awkward cause when I showed up today he started flirting with me

Put that in your bong and smoke it