I was dating this girl for just over 6 months and we went through a lot, not what every 'normal' relationship goes through in such a short time. In brief, she was diagnosed with cancer and despite her trying to break it off (relatively early days), I decided that I wanted to be there for her despite the prognosis not looking good. This is relatively irrelevant as this was my choice to stay with her but this explains how our relationship accelerated very quickly.
She left for treatment and fortunately the operation was a success and she was given the all clear for the time being. This is where it all begins...
It was not a good relationship from here on, I don't know why but she didn't treat me well. I did what I could whilst she would do things that she knew annoyed me e.g. talk about exs, ignore me on nights out, hell she didn't even get me a Christmas or birthday present... It obviously wasn't all bad because why would I care? The point is I treated her as well as I could with the utmost respect and yet I get this thrown back in my face. Part of the breakup was over an argument where both of us had been away for a several weeks and she made the effort to meet a guy (who she knew fancied her) instead of me. I didn't have a problem that it was him, I had a problem that she didnt want to see me which for some reason she never understood. I have now found out that she is now dating this guy. THe break up was relatively calm and I feel that keeping my feelings inside has made this break up quite hard to get over.
I am so angry and bitter as she is acting to him how I wanted her to act with me. I am angry with how she treated me and I know this is not healthy!
I mainly just wanted to share this but advice is welcome. I am considering getting things off my chest via email / letter / facebook message etc... What are your thoughts? Sadly I still have to see her every now and then as she is in one of my classes.
Thanks
Yours frustrated,
Chilli