I've been with this girl on and off for a while, it was mainly for the sex and we both admitted it. We've both cheated on each other in the past and now we've been taking it slow. She's into true love and all that so she believes I am the one for her but I know I'm not because we see sensitive things differently. She is completely in love with me and she says she knows me, but I don't feel like she does. I do like her but I know I couldn't fall in love with her, purely because of how irritating she can be and just how extreme she sees things. but anyway, I don't really have a problem with her, I once believed I was, maybe I am? but I honestly don't feel it. But anyway, the main problem is that recently I don't feel like having sex with her anymore, she'll always try to initiate it but I just feel put off and I can't be bothered. I enjoy the sex but I literally can't be bothered to go through the process of having sex e.g. taking off clothes, kissing her etc. Is this just an adolescent phase or is my time with her done? it's been about 3 years 60% of the time we were together but most of it was arguments over me speaking to girls and what not. Don't get me wrong here, I'm not the cheating type, I just want to find a girl that I can have intellectual conversations with and we can both understand each other.
Anyway, has anybody got any advice to all my rambling?
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