is this normal???

[UsuallyConfused]

ok, I've been casually seeing a guy for about a year and a half to two years now. we kind of established that what we have is just for good fun despite that fact that I am attracted to him. he shows signs off attraction to me as well but nothing too significant other than a compliment here and there.

we hooked up the other night and right afterwards he called me over to lay with him. it was honestly really cute to see him pull a blanket over us with our legs all intertwined and whatnot instead of throwing our clothes back on and immediately leaving like we usually do. he even made a comment about me spending the night and didn't even try to hide me from his friends/roommates while I was there...
but he took me home because we both had to get up early, and right before we say goodbye, I always kiss him... this time he leaned in to kiss me and looked confused when I was surprised that he wanted to make the first move for once.

but the things he did that night aren't what he usually does. don't get me wrong, I'm not complaining at all but is it normal to want to cuddle with a casual hook up? like that's what really had me raising my eyebrows...
and his friends didn't even know about us at all until then, and now I guess they do lol
and is it normal for a guy to want a girl who' they have been hooking up with to spend the night?

[basilandthyme]

If we can get to the point where it's normal to have sex with a friend, then it would be normal to cuddle and snuggle with that said friend. Cuddling and snuggling doesn't mean that he holds any emotions for you - you're just filling his need at the time.

I can't see why he wouldn't want a hookup to spend the night....a night of cuddling can be quite pleasant. And I'm sure that he has no need to hide his goings-on from his flatmates.

Anyway, I'm sure he's attracted to you - otherwise he wouldn't be having sex with you. But don't confuse sexual attraction with him actually wanting a relationship with you.