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    Friends or what?

    Sixs months ago I met a girl... we talked all the time and shared many secret....5 weeks ago i ask her if she wants to be my girl, she said no, because in december of last year , and this january i asked other two girls the same****......(this two girls didnt mean anything to me .....was only a temporary crush) but this girl means a lot to me ... i cannot stop thinking about her....how can i prove her that shes special to me?

    **** In adittion, she said to me that she doesnt feel anything for me and we are only friends, but she also said that she feels very bad because she didnt want to hurt my feelings. She thinks i fall in love with every girl i met, how can i prove her shes wrong??

    Actually it is very difficult to talk with her because she´s avoiding me, but every time we talk she look like she wants to tell me something....and i´ve tried to stop speaking her but after two weeks without seen each other she send a text message to my celphone saying that "I wish you the best in your studies, i supose that we haven't seen each other because you were occupied studying.Best wishes"
    Someone can explain to me what its the situation or what should i do?



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    I think I can sum this up. Don't try to rush success. If it is meant to be it is, if not just be there as a friend. Maybe that will help her make her mind. I am in sort of the same situation. But is different mine has a boyfriend haha. But still best of luck! Let us know how it goes.
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    From my experience, and im stil going through this experience of mine; from my experience you should continue on being her friend, try to be ginuwine like mini696 told me and make her realize that u r a great person to b around and someone to have alot of fun, talk comfortably without holding anything in. You have to be a ginuwine friend tho and u must not think about getting with her but just about friendship, then after a while if you guys full fill all these things and more im sure u guys will start to notice you like each other and then u can make your move...tell her how u feel about her. One thing tho is if you tell her "i love you" and stuff like that u might scare her away expecially if you havent gotten to kno her that well yet even if its a couple of months. Start it off slow, show her you really like her and dont come on to strong. This is just some advice but others with more knowledge will let u kno even more. so dont worry your shit will be straightened out.

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    Doesnt work

    Hi .. i posted two months ago .... something about i girl i met ....... you told to let oyu knor how it goes ........ well everything went bad.. we arent even friends now........

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    Quote Originally Posted by empirity
    Hi .. i posted two months ago .... something about i girl i met ....... you told to let oyu knor how it goes ........ well everything went bad.. we arent even friends now........
    Sorry to hear that...but everything happens for a reason...and honestly I don't think this girl was right for you. The good news is there are other girls....and in time you will find another one..... So don't worry....rejection happens to everyone.....you just move on.
    Appreciate the good times and learn from the bad times....


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