My girlfriend and I have been together for two and a half years yesterday. Well, we mutually broke up about a month ago and things have been hectic ever since. The reason we broke up was because for the past year, she said I was not treating her right. I completely agree with this, she was putting in 80 percent while i was going the other 20. That day when we broke up, I was upset but I did not let it get the best of me. About two days later after it sunk in, I realized what a huge mistake i made and i then tried to fight to get her back. I bought her flowers and dinner and left it for her in her room (she lives with one of my best friends so her house is easy access) while she was at work. She got home and loved the gift and we immediately got back together, but did not put any official tittle on it yet. Two days later she told me she couldnt do it anymore. She said she doesnt love herself, and in order to love herself, she cant love anyone else. I also asked her if we ever had a chance of getting back together and she said yes, eventually. We constantly see eachother as if we were still together, but she does not keep in contact with me as she used to. Just yesterday I took her out to a beautiful dinner on top of the John Hancock(Chicago), and we enjoyed some great food with a great view of the city and for one night we forgot about all our problems. There are times when everything seems normal, but then in the blink of the eye she is telling me to leave her room because she wants to be alone. Im confused, I dont know what to do. This past month I have been fighting so hard to get her back and I feel like everything has flipped, she is going 20 and im going 80. I dont even remember the last time she texted or called me without me doing it first. She is 22, and I am 20, and she keeps telling me that I am so young and because this is my first serious relationship, she wants me to be with someone else, and when Im ready, come back to her. This just seems ridiculous to me, I do not want to do that because I love her. She tells me she is afraid of getting hurt again. What do I do? Do i give her some space? Do i continue fighting like im doing now? Im willing to do anything it takes to get her back because I never realized what i had until she was gone. Any help would be greatly appreciated, thank you.