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[joanna1]

My good friend is wondering if she would technically be cheating if she sent pictures of her in her underwear to me I told ger id love to see that, but not to think I would ever make her do that I told her I personally dont think its cheating, but its up to her whether she sends them or not im still going to love her and be her best friend
I just figured id ask girls there side first, and them the guus WHAT DO YOU THINK IS IT CHEATING YES OR NO

Seems suspect to me. I think those kinds of pictures are too intimate to share privately with a male who isn't your partner. I think she has to be attracted to, and into you more than friendship to even offer to send you sexy pictures.

[Maple1714]

All depends on the context of the situation. If she feels she has to hide it from her BF then yes, it's cheating b/c she is lying.

[4 ratties]

Not cheating but very inappropriate.

[lisatalarico]

I don´t think that is cheating.
I mean, fantasy is part of our intimacy, isn`t it.
To cheat is to have sex or kissing or touching and that`s it.
At least that`s what I think.

[searock]

I don´t think that is cheating.
I mean, fantasy is part of our intimacy, isn`t it.
To cheat is to have sex or kissing or touching and that`s it.
At least that`s what I think.

It's one thing to fantasize, watch/read porn and so on. But what she is about to do is actually interacting with another real person, sending him pictures of herself in her underwear. This is a step too far, it's emotional cheating because it's a bond with another person.

[smackie9]

Ya so if the love of your life was doing this sort of thing with another girl...how would your heart be feeling about it?

[SpreadTheLove]

yup. I agree with this one and seems to be the concensus of everyone else too. It is not right.

Doesn't matter the reason behind it. Sending pictures of yourself in underwear to someone else while you're in a relationship is wrong. Would you like if you had a gf and she sent pics of herself in panties to some other guy? I didn't think so.

I am all woman.

[Wakeup]

Sending picture of yourself in your underwear is crossing a very fundamental relationship boundary. It's disrespectful to her partner and to the relationship in general if she's doing things like this with you. She should ask her boyfriend if she can do this and if he's okay with it then thats their business. If she won't ask if he thinks doing things like that is alright with him, then she knows it's cheating so no need to ask us.

If you're so concerned about it then tell her you're going to ask her boyfriend if he is cool with it and if she won't let you, then tell her to keep her pics to herself then.

[HeartIsAching]

My good friend is wondering if she would technically be cheating if she sent pictures of her in her underwear to me I told ger id love to see that, but not to think I would ever make her do that I told her I personally dont think its cheating, but its up to her whether she sends them or not im still going to love her and be her best friend
I just figured id ask girls there side first, and them the guus WHAT DO YOU THINK IS IT CHEATING YES OR NO

Would you be alright with it if your girlfriend sent pics of herself in her underwear to a male friend?

[Mocca]

It's wrong but it's hard to say if it's cheating or not... I　personally think it's cheating but a lot of people let a lot of stuff slide.