Originally Posted by
fobous
Great point! I learned this obviously the hard way and i had no intentions to go back to the movies. I'm not crazy lol. Just from the top of your head, whats a good venue? I don't want to do "dinner". I need a venue where I get an excuse to physically interact with her, I was thinking mini golfing? Show her how to hold the club ? #Ghost
I feel like I should preface this with, I'm usually not a bad date, actually this was the first date in my life that I considered unsuccessful. (That's why i put so much effort into it after the first one was a bust, smackie9.) I don't like to fail, and I certainly don't like to give up. Although I know there are circumstances in which giving up is best
smackie9 - Honestly ... i just want to know how she feels about me. Personally, i really like her. I liked her from the first time i met her, and i felt like there was something between us. Unfortunately i was with another girl. I know that attraction will fade over time.. so im skeptical on whether or not she is even into me anymore. And the reason i asked her out even though the first one was a bust, is because of the terrible venue last time! (like i mentioned above) I know i can do much better given the right setting.
I like this girl, so no doubt i will take her on this second date. I'll be a bit more creative with the venue... but what bugs me is this: She texts me to hang out months after I had texted her, why? Specially since the first date blew. I guess what my brain wants to hear is that it's cause she's into me, even if that is the furthest thing from the truth.
I was curious to see what you guys thought her actions meant?
Thank you for your replies! You guys are awesome.