So, I am in a relationship with a really amazing girl. We've been together for 2 months and we're together a lot of the time. I'm 29 and she's 27 and we've both been in a fair amount of relationships before and all that so we know what we're looking for. I find her smart, beautiful, funny, and I'm happy with her professional level. I really love her and I want to stay with her hopefully forever.
There is however one problem and that is that she has major issues with sex. I'm sorry to say that the stem from the fact that she was sexually assaulted 3 years ago. She told me about it on our first date and she said she had counseling for it, I am sorry to hear it but I still want her. The issue specifically is that she rarely wants to have sex, maybe 1-2 times a week and then it's hurried through. She also doesn't seem interested in doing anything like oral or adventurous stuff. She sometimes tries to hide her nudity from me in weird ways too. I am sensitive to her and I hate that she had to deal with that pain.
I have talked to her about my concerns a couple times but it didn't help. If there isn't going to be a normal sex life, then it will all just get messed up one day because honestly when she turns me down sometimes it makes me feel hurt and mad. I just can't help it, I have needs. I really love her and I try so hard to make her feel special as much as I can. I want to know how to fix this one issue so I can have a completely happy relationship.