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Thread: What do you guys think of a girl who asks you out ?

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    What do you guys think of a girl who asks you out ?

    Do you believe in second chances and initiative girls?

    I kind of messed things up with my ex. We weren't together much, but it was very interesting and nice, I miss him now... It has been 3 months, and we haven't heard each other.
    I would like to see him, but I dont know what to write to him, Im kind of scared because it's been a while and what do I say? What if he has a girlfriend? What if nothing is the same, I mean it has been 3 months after all...what if he doesn't respod positive, and I get hurt?
    Or what if I look needy? How do you ask for second chance?

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    A rejection is always better than you wondering what could of been. If you don't give yourself a chance, you will never find out that could of be or not be. I takes balls to message someone putting all your emotions out as you could not get the answer you might be hoping for; however, it could be torturing living with the fact that probably he was feeling the same way as you and he was holding back as well.

    I say write to him from your heart and tell him how you feel KEEPING IN MIND HE MIGHT NOT REPLY. Hopefully he will reply positively, but in case he doesn't at least you know you gave it you all.

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    I know what you mean by contacting guy just to find out theres no feelings anymore or dude have GF. That would suck. Its better to be in the dark and quietly believe that somewhere in once beautiful heart is a little love for you.

    Anyway why things ended between you two? If you can be together or not depends on what happened at the end.
    Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will

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