So this is going to be long! I met a girl two months ago in a club, we ended up searching for a hotel that night but unfortunately I ended up dropping her back home cause we couldn't find one! We exchanged numbers and talked for a couple of weeks, she lives in a different city! So I decided to visit her and everything went well! We kissed and had a good connection! Though again we didn't have sex! I came back and we talked through msgs, she said she likes me but is not sure about a relationship! So we said let's try and see how it goes and she agreed! A week later she suddenly turned cold! So I sent her flowers and we still had small little talks! But I knew things were not going good! So I decided to play along, my birthday was coming so I msg her that I'm in her city for some work and if she'll like then we can meet up sometime during my birthday weekend, she was busy on Saturday so she offered to meet on Friday! I took her out on awesome dinner date, after which we went to a bar and had few drinks with a couple we met at the restaurant! It was good, rather great! We kissed and she was very passionate! We ended up that night in my hotel and having sex, though i wouldn't rate it great cause we both were too tired(it was 6 in the morning by the time we got in bed) and drunk too! Next day, I dropped her home and say I'm heading back to my city! Though I didn't end up going back that day, she msgd me that night asking where I was, I told her I'm still in the city! So she invited me for coffee near her place! We went out, had a great time! Next day I headed back, she called me couple of times asking where I'm and what I'm doing! She even told her mom that she was with we on the weekend! When I came back we constantly exchanged msgs, she said she likes me and wants to be with me! I told her to come to my city but she works and her mother is visiting the country for medical reasons so she couldn't find time and asked me to visit her and she misses me and is waiting for me! Everything was great! Until last weekend, she went out to a club with friends and since then she has suddenly turned cold! She replies to my texts, but I tried calling her a couple of times but she was busy so she just texted me what happened! I told her was just missing her and wanted to talk! She didn't reply to that!(it was 1 in the night) next day we still exchanged msgs Hi, how are you.. I don't know why she is turning cold! What did I do wrong? What should I do now? Should I keep msging without telling her about my insecurity or should I stop talking to her! I'm planning a surprise visit to her place next month and plan to ask her to be my gf! Please help me what should I do! I really like this girl and she said she likes me! I even joked that I want to change your last name and she said, I'm ready! When will you change it!