First, just a little about me, I"m patrified of talking to girls. I have social anxiety bad, and the best thing i can compare it to is freezing up before getting on a roller coaster or trying to
go sky diving but you freeze up before jumping out.I've been working on fixing this most of my life. Anyhow there is this hot girl in my math class in college. After class we were both
waiting for the bus that will take us to the dorms. It was raining but we waited outside anyhow we talked for like 40 minutes cause the bus didn't come. Just small talk about random things
working out, majors, food etc. She is so down to earth, and i didn't feel fearful talking to her.The next day i saw her with her back turned waiting for the bus again, i didn't approach her out
of fear but i wish i would of at least said hi, pretty sure she eventually saw me. I want a girlfriend more then anything in life at this point, I"m 21 and never had one because of my fear. This girl seems nice and she is seriously hot. There are only 2 weeks left of this semester though so i have to make my move quickly or chances are i wont see her again. I noticed she eats at the student buffet usually around the time i go to eat there. Would there be anything weird about me approaching her while she is eating and saying " Hey ___ , mind if i join you?" I think it sounds like an okay thing to say...but I"m not really familiar with her, aside from that one conversation we had and i'm afraid she will think I"m a creep or something. Also what if she already has a boyfriend? i tried searching for her on facebook but could not find her... What if when I"m sitting with her there is an awkward silence? What if i don't even see her at the student buffet again!!? i can't approach her after math class because she almost always waits for the bus with her girlfriend .. Please advice