Me and My GF have been dating for over a year and a half, we are reaching our mid 20's now. The reason i am here posting is because our relationship is becoming a long distance relationship because of the military. Recently she has just graduated from the U.S. Air Force Basic Training and now is heading to Tech School. Her unit she will go to is also out of state. Also, i am about to join the U.S. Army, and my AIT for my MOS is 54 weeks.
I do not like long distance relationships, because i was once engaged my first years in college. We had selected different schools, and tried the long distance. She ended up cheating on me and i was devastated. I went through a major depression.
I find myself thinking about this, since i have truly fallen for my current GF. I do trust her and love her completely. I am just unsure about us, and knowing this Christmas could be the last time i get to be with her for a year. We will be able to talk with pphones, skype, etc. I know i need to talk to her this Christmas when i see her, but i'm not sure how. I don't want her to know how worried i really am, and i don't want her to worry. So any advice on talking to her would be very appreciated.
The gift i am getting her for christmas is a really nice locket (which she knows about) and i was going to get it engraved with the word "Always" which will go with a poem i am writing for her named "Always". She doesn't know about the poem or engraving. It will be the nicest gift i have gotten her. We are actually going to jewelry stores to find one.
Another thing i have thought about is maybe asking her to marry me. Not at Christmas, but when i graduate from Basic Training, which will be sometime in June/July. It depends on what we talk about over Christmas.
Any advice or comments would be much appreciated.
P.S. Sorry for not putting a better title on this post. not exactly the best person to put words on paper