Finally saw this girl outside of her work and we had a great time, but...

[A_Regular_Dude]

I haven't heard back from her. I had been talking to her for a few weeks via texting and seeing her at work....nothing too much, just a little small talk to keep things light. I met her as I became a regular at her place of employment and finally decided to ask for her number.

Anyway, she had a friend holding large get together and asked me if I'd like to join and then go out after(I had already tried to set up dinner, didn't meet her work schedule). I obviously said yes. We pregamed at the house for about a few hours, most of which I spent building a repoire with her. I thought we got along great, there was no awkwardness whatsoever, in fact,I was fairly pleased with how things were going. Then this is where I'm thinking I may have messed up....I didn't pace myself, at all. I remember going to the first bar and then we eventually got split up. Nonetheless, I ended up at her apartment and fell asleep shortly after.

The next morning we talked a little bit, nothing seemed different, that I could tell at least. I left and she told me to text her when I got home, I said okay.

I get home a few hours later than expected, I met up with a friend and worked out. I texted her thanking her for the good time and basically saying iI had a great time getting to know everyone. This was yesterday at 3 PM and she hasn't responded. I'm having anxiety hoping I didn't do something stupid while I was drunk, as I said that second half of the night is a blur. I can't tell if she's playing hard to get or if I should spare myself the embarrassment and not text her back...Any advice? Please? By the way, we're both 21 if that helps.

[smackie9]

Hmmmmm you didn't texted her until much later....this could have put her off a bit, or maybe she just didn't fancy you. Sometimes you don't have to do anything wrong for a girl to not have interest. Text her for a coffee date and see. If you don't hear from her it's over, she is just ignoring you til you get the hint.