Please! Help! Don't know what to do!

[Airborne]

There's this girl who I use to go out with, who broke up with me about 3 weeks ago, we were friends before hand and the way we act now is so entirely different its astounding. We don't keep in contact any where near as much as we used to, we are both teenagers, so the main method of keeping in touch is texting for us.

I still want to go out with her, but I feel as if there is a gap that has been put between us, we aren't in contact anywhere near as often, and she always takes ages to respond to me when I contact her. Recently I have tried not contacting her and that doesn't really seem to be working either. We are still friends but it is nothing like what we were.

How could I bridge the space between us that has been created by the break up, so that we have a chance at another go at the relationship?

Thanks

[Tone]

You can't force a relationship to happen just because you want it. She dumped you... she's trying to avoid contact with you... you starting to put 2 and 2 together?

[Airborne]

You can't force a relationship to happen just because you want it. She dumped you... she's trying to avoid contact with you... you starting to put 2 and 2 together?

Aye thats what I thought, but she has started contacting me back when I haven't texted her in awhile. I don't really want to force a relationship, so just gonna tell her how i feel i spose and see how things develop, I know she wants to remain friends.

[shh!]

I would avoid contact with ex-girlfriends. I don't really believe in friendships after relationships, and you guys are just kids - there should be plenty of fish in the sea for you. If she really liked you, she wouldn't have dumped you, and now it sounds like she is just playing with you.