Advice

[Justaguy1]

Hi everyone
I'm free of long term relationship nearly 2 years now and i find myself attracted to my kids teacher(she my age, late 30's)
Now then, my dilemma is what do i do about it..i first flirted with her early on in year, a subtle look into her eyes while slowly licking my lip (i know, but it just happened and she never looked away and she started smiling at me not long after) what do you make of that? Some interest at least? Not had much dealings with her to speak with and my son no longer in her class, he also leaves the school next year(primary sch)
I know she is aware i like her and recently we locked eyes..one of them intense moments you just feel something
I'm aware she has a long term bf but you get the impression all i not well..especially with way she been smiling and looking at me
I cant stop thinking about her now and this isn't helping, obviously i don't want to just approach her for obvious reasons..my son at school and if she rejected me that would make things difficult as you can imagine

What do you females reckon to my dilemma? I get the impression she has told her fellow female teaching colleagues because they been smiling at me and letting on regular recently, since i've been looking at her more so of late..so whats happening??

Help and advice please, and cheers x

[michelle23]

She is in a relationship so stay away. Affairs dont work out or do rebound relationships. Your wasting your time

[Justaguy1]

I understand what your saying but relationships come to an end, just as my 15 yr one ended..
Maybe she wants rid of her partner? But you never mentioned if what i described is her showing interest in me..what your opinion?

[Rowen]

I understand what your saying but relationships come to an end, just as my 15 yr one ended..
Maybe she wants rid of her partner? But you never mentioned if what i described is her showing interest in me..what your opinion?

Let me repeat this for those who don't read too well.... You're wasting your time, just as Michelle said. Don't wait around hoping she leaves this guy because you'll only disappoint yourself if she decides to stay and will have wasted so much time hoping for something that didn't come true. Not to mention, if she just decided to flirt with you (and that's a big if) and then left the guy for you, how do you know she won't leave you for someone else when things get rough? Someone can cheat on their partner with you, but that doesn't mean she'll only stay faithful to you if she leaves him for you.

Not to mention, exiting a long term relationship is not all butterflies and rainbows. It takes MONTHS to get over and a lot of times calls for some bold life changes. If you pounce on her as soon as she's single like you want to do (By the way, the whole lip thing sounds like it was from a really bad 70's porno, in my opinion. Please don't ever do that to a woman ever again.), it won't really be because she wants to be with you... She'll be using you as a crutch until she gets better, and then she'll be searching for something better.

Don't do it; don't shit where you eat. Move on.

[BackUpOrGetStng]

Stop being a pussy, and just talk to her about it.

Chicken shit.