she's a little runaway

[slw1]

the ex gf and now just friend has run awat from me again , because she thinks I want more than friendship. She has a history of running from me. This time she told a friend she does not want any contact with me anymore, I wrote this email to her , but have not sent it yet.

my email;
I want to be your friend. I want you to communicate your concerns with me , if I did things to make you uncomfortable please tell me .I am willing to listen to your feelings when you are ready to give the friendship some effort. I am not willing to put up with running after you every time things get too much for you to handle.I wont always be here if you keep treating me this way.


what do you think?
thanks

[artyemi]

sounds good.

i keep running away too. but ahhh. there's no chase. in fact, i'm tired of attempting a failed running attempt.

white flag. i give up. somebody grab a shovel and bury me already.

anyway, i digress.

you didn't exactly provide much detail.

maybe she doesn't want to be friends with you because she can't. like maybe she's got too much feelings for you, you know? or maybe you do act like you want more than friendship?

what exactly do you want?

[Tone]

You sound kinda creepy IMO...

[Asip4u]

You sound kinda creepy IMO...

I agree with this post. The reason being is that your email/letter sounds so fake, it's like you don't mean any of those things.

[Tone]

Oh, no I was talkin about Arty.

[Steve2004]

i agree with Asip

this guy sounds freaky.

Like one of those pedofiles "..come here kids...i promise this time i wont touch you in your special place..."

[slw1]

Have any better suggestions?

[Tone]

Yeah, don't be a creep and leave her alone.

[Asip4u]

i agree with Asip

this guy sounds freaky.

Like one of those pedofiles "..come here kids...i promise this time i wont touch you in your special place..."

Seriously, most guys are so obvious...What do we want? We want girls..I mean, come on...The girl isn't stupid. She saw that he wants something more and left him.

[whaywardj]

slw1 -- Have I got this right? She tells a friend, whom, I presume, tells you, that she doesn't want any contact with you; then you send her an email telling her what you will and won't tolerate from her? That right?

If so, do you see how COMPLETELY strange, weird and threatening that is?

[Tone]

haha there's our man.

[slw1]

Thats why I come here first , to stop from doing stupid sh#t.

[Asip4u]

Thats why I come here first , to stop from doing stupid sh#t.

Perhaps...or maybe you came because you wanted someone to tell you that it was ok to do what you were doing?

[TAVS]

Do we need to bring Ladder theory into this?

[Steve2004]

Perhaps...or maybe you came because you wanted someone to tell you that it was ok to do what you were doing?

that's what i do.


then everyone tells me i shouldn't do it. then i feel like an idiot.