is it right for me to do so?

[HarryN]

i dont know but this girl
who just came into my life
in such
circumstances..

i mean i just was dealing with this breakup
that just shut me down emotionally, mentally and everything
i wasnt able to cope with, was taking medication for it and now
in just, with her in only 2days ive fallen for her
and she loves me the same way even more i guess
the problem is im 20 she is 15
now i dont know if it is right or thing happening is right
but ive fallen bad and i can feel it
now it might be support im seeking or
the love im getting from her is drawing me towards her
i dont know, she is teen and for her things are yet to be known
i dont want to be life lesson for her
ive witnessed and seen a lot before my age
but her its different she is nice and sweet
am i doing right? what shall i do?
i get these butterflies now the very feeling i used to hate 2weeks ago
she isnt even one of my friends, i just met her and snap
i need advice, please

[pcmaster]

Be careful and you will hurt yourself. Dude fear of hurting her will just make you end up alone and sad. Not just with this girl but in life in general its better think of yourself as a little bit better than others. The sucsess is only in action. Thinking about negative outcomes will lead to failure.

http://www.loveforum.net/threads/856...ing-with-girls

And you will need this too.

loveforum.net/threads/85672-Guide-How-to-deal-with-breakup

[smackie9]

You are escaping your hurt and loneliness by being infatuated with this girl. Plus she is vulnerable and could easily get so caught up she will get hurt too. Stop using her to hide from your pain......I think this is why you are here....you know this isn't right.

[HarryN]

You are escaping your hurt and loneliness by being infatuated with this girl. Plus she is vulnerable and could easily get so caught up she will get hurt too. Stop using her to hide from your pain......I think this is why you are here....you know this isn't right.

maybe you are right, but im not usuing her, she knows everything about me now
even before i was with her i told her made everything clear denying her
she pushed me and said to take a chance i dont know why
i can live alone ive that will power but she is coming strong
im not trying to defend this but thats whats happening

so what now? i hurt her n walk away? is that the best thing to do now??
or make it slow so she wont notice? what shall i do then tell me..
sorry if it sounds rude i just dont know the right thing here

[ameliapearl]

I think hurting her and walking away now is definitely the better bet (over pursuing this and having it become more meaningful to you both and THEN REALLY hurting one another). And you may have explained it all to her, but she's young. Even if she's smart, she may be too optimistic and not realize the extent of your pain and the state you're in.

I say get over the breakup and THEN, if she's still a round and still interested, see where things go, slowly.

[pcmaster]

Man she realy dont care about your problems. She just want a guy near her. Only problem is most guys are evasive like you and younger guys are even worse. In the end girl things its her fault and guys think shes not good enought. Remember at 15 girls tryed tos seduce me but I ignored her not because I didnt liked her but because was thinking shes joking. After while she ended up with 19 year old fella. Cant blame her for that.

So its basicaly up to you to decide. Girls at that age dont need much, you could keep her around even without sex.

[smackie9]

You are using her...not sexually but to help you escape from your pain. It may not seem that way to you but that is why you are doing.....most call it a rebound.