Okay so this may be silly to some but for those who are dog lovers can hopefully relate.
My ex bought me two dogs for a couple years ago and we broke up about a month ago and he would not let me have the dogs. I'm more upset about losing them than I am him. They were like my kids and the ones I was with the most.
Well my ex and I have not kept in much contact and it's going okay. I saw the dogs twice since the breakup and it kills me to leave them and makes things worse so as hard as it has been, I think it's best I don't see them, or my ex for that matter. My ex says I can see the dogs whenever I want and I can take them to my parents (whom I had to move back in with on the weekends or whatever I want to do. He also has to go out of town for work for a week and asked if I could come let the dogs out etc. I told him I wasn't sure and I feel its messed up he would even ask me. We'll anyway, when I say I don't know or I don't think its a good idea etc about seeing the dogs he says I don't love them or I don't care about them and is never loved them. Stuff like that.
So my question is, am I wrong for saying no? Does it make me look like I don't love them or care about them? I know I do and part of me thinks I know the truth but the other part lets him get to me and makes me feel guilty because I was the one who left.