This guy I used to date told me that I lost my chance with him because I didn't go in for the "kill", and he tells me to start anew and don't talk about the times with him. Yet, he still calls me. Today he called me and everything was fine until the point where he asked me to ask him a question. I didn't know what to ask, and then he gets mad because I'm not asking him. He kept going "i'm waiting". I told him I wanted to get off the phone and go to bed. Mainly I was tired but I'm also mad at him. He told me to call him tomorrow, but I can't because it is my sisters birthday and he told me "call me when you are done celebrating with her birthday." I can't call him because Monday I am going on an overnight trip and I need to get some sleep, but he told me "you better call me or bad things are going to happen". I don't even get it because we are not in a relationship.
It got to the point where I said "you can't force me to do anything". He actually agreed to that and said " you know, your right, but I expect you to do the right thing and call me." Eventually I told him " we aren't even together, so why are you doing this?" and he goes " we aren't together, but we are friends, right? friends call each other, right?" and he was laughing the whole time, then told me I better not go to bed mad and call him and think of a question to ask him.
He is starting to scare me and creep me out. This is the same guy who forced me to go on a date with his friend and then told me his friend said I was being shy when it was his friend who was shy and that next time I better not be shy or that bad things will happen to me and he will delete my number and never talk to me again. I do not even want to go out with his friend, it was too awkward. Also, he is making me set up a date where he can meet my friends because according to him "we can ALL be friends and ALL hangout." He even made fun at me when I told him I didn't have a date for prom in high school and that I went with a group of friends. He told me that I should of stayed home and laughs everything when he brings it up, just because I went with friends. No matter what I do or say, it always is "my fault" and i'm sick and tired of talking to him. plus he only calls me in the middle of the night, and its not right.. my family sleeps and I can't wake them up. What should I do?
Oh, he also gets mad when I don't answer his questions correctly, and tells me I am not allowed to say "sorry" or "thank you" because he doesn't accept them. Plus he tells me I never said thank you to the dates he took me on, when I clearly remember I did and he kissed me on the cheek after. I don't get what I did that was so wrong.