All,
There is a girl I like at work.
I asked her out a few weeks ago and she said yes, but a couple of days later she cancelled it and said she couldn't because it was unprofessional (She's a supervisor while i'm just a workshop mechanic).
She's also older than me by four years i'm 22. She also said she would consider it at a later date, not sure if this was a knock off or not as she is leaving the company in a months time, and going back to her home state for three months before returning back at which point she would consider it (doing a different job at another company).
She has a driving test this week but i'm not sure whether to text her good luck or not as I don't want to be a creep/stalker.
I'm really interested in this girl as she's smart, funny, cultured and has a glow about her. I think she just thinks I like her as some workshop bravado and that I would dump her after having sex with her, I wouldn't be to keen on this either as it would just be awkward at work. This is not the case as I really want to develop a relationship with her as I think we would suit each other in we both know what we want from life.
I would like one date with her to show her the real side of me and not the workshop bravado side. I'm also not the best looking guy (birth defect) ever which might also be putting her off.
She is leaving in a months time though.
The question was more about whether I should text her good luck with her driving test or not. I honestly hope she passes as it will allow her to go onto a career path which she wants to do. She's on holiday so I can't see her in person.
I do not want a sexual relationship with her while we are working for the same company.