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Thread: Why has he disapepared the day of our Weekend Together?

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    Why has he disapepared the day of our Weekend Together?

    I met a charming, gorgeous guy a few months ago.
    We have been talking/texting/dating ever since.
    We are set to spend a romantic hotel weekend together at a resort today!
    We usually text or talk everyday, all day.
    I haven't heard from him since Tuesday, today is Friday.
    The last text he sent me was "Have a good day babe"
    I have sent him 3 texts since, no reply. I'm not much a clingy gal, I don't like to bother him...
    I got the resort totally free, so I'm not worried about wasting money, however, I do not like being ignored and don't want this entire weekend to go to waste.
    What do you other women think I should do?
    What do you guys think?
    I'm confused. I really like him, he is refreshing, smart, has a great career, car, home, family...we have hour long phone convos...

    He probably has another girl (or two) on the side
    We are not exclusive by any means..
    It is 9:34am right now, on Friday. I am giving him until noon, and if still no word, I am making new plans!

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    He probably got arrested for violating his Sex-Offenders' registration.

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    Well thanks

    Quote Originally Posted by HeartIsAching View Post
    He probably got arrested for violating his Sex-Offenders' registration.
    He's not a Sex Offender...I've already checked him out
    Perhaps he was abducted by aliens?
    And the alien happens to be a 5'7, Tan Blonde with Blue Eyes? haha

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    He probably has another girl (or two) on the side
    No you were likely the other girl on the side. Did you check him out to see if he was married?

    Anyway, I don't think it's a good idea that you put any more effort or certainly any more emotion into this one.
    “The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wakeup View Post
    No you were likely the other girl on the side. Did you check him out to see if he was married?

    Anyway, I don't think it's a good idea that you put any more effort or certainly any more emotion into this one.
    Thanks!
    I agree...it's just disheartening to lose out on what I thought was a good guy...
    And I noticed I majorly misspelled Disappeared in my thread title...LOL
    I decided to give him until Noon for a reply, but after being shafted for the past few days, I'm not so sure I want to see him now.

    I have never done this to someone..I've always been honest & up front, in a polite way =)

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    I finally texted him again..I know, I shouldn't have
    He replied staing he "Just got a life changing job"
    That's it....Asshole!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lynn43 View Post
    I finally texted him again..I know, I shouldn't have
    He replied staing he "Just got a life changing job"
    Or his wife is sniffing around because he's been acting shady.
    That's it....Asshole!
    You can say that again.

    Block and delete him so that he can't contact you in any way. He's a DB to the nth degree. Next time, don't make any plans with some guy to go away with him or go to bed with him even until he's had you to his house and introduced you to at least one family member. Then you'll know that he's at least single. You don't even know that much about the assclown.

    Live and learn and onto better.
    “The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion

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    Messages deleted, photos, number, everything...it's pretty bad to be going through this in my thirties for goodness sake!

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