Long story short
- I am 23
- I recently got a new girlfriend of 24 soon 25.
- We have a decent sex life, we talk well together...
- I have recently found out that i am subcounciously trying to plant behavior patterns of my ex into her.
- ''the way she dresses, teaching her the same fun dances my ex used to do, the things we do in our spare time''... and so on
- Long story short i am trying to convert her into my ex... one small thing at a time...
- They remind alot of each other in the first place, music taste (which i hate) and so on.
Reason me and ex broke up was not because we fought, but because she had to move away (far away, as in another country)
We were together for over 6 years, and lived together for 4 of those years.
What would you people do in my situation?
Its not like i dont like the new girl because i do... but i have such a hard time letting go of the past... all the memories... all the good times.