just wanted to share my frustration

[ingalls]

Last night at work I had a bad day. A new co-worker of mine spread a few lies about me trying to get me fired because she wants to be promoted to my spot

I was very upset so I texted my girlfriend about it. She was pretty much saying "wow" , "who is it" what did she say"


then she replying and when I saw her later she said "I don't really enjoy hearing your frustration about your job, it makes me think you aren't dependable since you almost got fired"

i was in shock she said this and just went home

I have no idea what to say to her

[basilandthyme]

Try "**** off". I think it's quite an appropriate response for the situation

[searock]

ingalls, you keep opening threads about how awful your girlfriend is. Why don't you break up with her if she makes you so upset and miserable so often?

[HeartIsAching]

Thanks for the heads-up, searock... I just read a bunch of his other threads and you're spot-on.

OP: Your "GF" is actually your keeper. These frustrating things she's doing aren't accidental - if she keeps changing the rules, you'll never be right, and that gives her a lever for control. I'd run the hell away from that crazy bitch ASAP.

[smackie9]

OP if you have proof that this co-worker is trying to sabotage your job, take action and report it to your HR person, or your boss. Her conduct is very unprofessional and it should be dealt with promptly.

Since you let your GF push you around it seems you also let other people do the same ie: your co-worker. If you want bad things to stop happening to you, grow a spine and stand up for yourself.