Advice on a girl I have met please

[st66]

HI all,

After all the crap over the last year I have moved on a lot and a couple of weeks ago met a girl out who I quite like. I am learning Spanish and I picked up on a group or girls out that were Spanish. We got talking later that night and we got talking about me learning Spanish and her learning English. She asked for my number etc and we carried on chatting, I left a bit later and we text the next day saying good to meet each other, I said I would like to meet for a drink, she did to, asked if I was free that afternoon but I wasn't. We chatted all week and agreed to meet on the Sunday night, she was with a friend and she apologized saying her friend was meant to go home but didn't want to but I didn't mind, later on the friend was going home and she asked if I wanted to do something else so we went for ice cream. Chatted again all week and met again this Saturday picked her up and we went to my house for coffee and talked for a few hours, went for something to eat and then to the local garden centre to look at fish and other animals, very good afternoon. Anyway friends of mine have said I should try and find out if these are dates or if the next time we meet is a date as I should want to know where I stand and where it might go, This has made me over think things a bit and be concerned that should I ask her out properly, if I do like her should I say something? Now at this point I like her but still unsure as only met twice and don't want to scare her off especially as it could quite easily turn into just friends. She has been flirty and very friendly but I wonder if that's just the Spanish nature. As said we chat everyday via text and online and not always me making the first contact. We share a big common interest in trying to speak the same languages and seem to enjoy each other’s company. So I'm just wondering how to play it, do I carry on seeing her and if something happens then great but if not I still have this new friend I enjoy spending time with, or do I tell her I like her and risk her saying no and it ruining things? Be interesting to hear some opinions and also any things to look out for that might be flirting and signs she likes me and not just being friendly.

[smackie9]

You take her by the hand and say "I have become very fond of you and would like to take you out for a nice dinner. All you have to do is say yes." smile and give her a confident wink. There done.

[st66]

I shall certainly give this a go, think I might have to learn it in Spanish as well