How do I do it? Please help.

[burningpatch]

Hi there, I am 17 and I am different from most. The thing is, I feel like most girls my age are looking for 'bad boys'; not guys like me who are genuinely nice people. I have friends who are in relationships where they pretty much just have sex all the time and it feels almost like there is not much substance to their relationship. That is far from what I am looking for; obviously, sex is good, but it is not the first thing I look for in a woman.

I watch movies where couples sit on the couch and watch movies together and cuddle and nothing else matters; and I see that and I want that.

I almost feel like I will have to wait a few years to find a nice lady who is more mature and over the 'fun' relationship age I guess. I for some strange reason (and I don't like to admit this) but I have quite high standards in terms of attractiveness and I don't know why; that's just me! So I think what I am trying to ask is for women out there to give me some advice on whether I am looking in the wrong places :/

Also, any advice on talking to women would help too (because I really suck at it )

thanks

[basilandthyme]

Sorry mate, but you want in a relationship sounds as boring at batshit. And I'm in my mid 40's. Age has nothing to do with what you are seeking.

For the record, relationships can and should be fun at any age. And a couple can shag each other's brains out and still have much substance. I won't go into the girls wanting 'bad boys' comments because I suspect your definition of a bad boy may be a bit broader than most. For what it's worth, I dated 'good boys' at age 17 and we still went at it like rabbits.

As for wanting high standards of attractiveness in a girl, are you planning to punch above your weight? Or are you also highly attractive and desirable?

All in all though, if you're looking for a gorgeous girl who isn't into sex and doesn't want a fun relationship, you'll be waiting a long time. With any luck, your hormones are just a bit late to kick in and you'll understand soon.

[pcmaster]

This will help you.

loveforum.net/threads/85674-Guide-on-interacting-with-girls

[dem862]

If you want to get a woman, it would be in your best interest to develop a healthy interest in sex. Not because most of them are interested in having sex, but because most of them are interested in men who are interested in having sex. The women are more interested in shopping, but that is a topic for the advanced male only.

[pcmaster]

Guy is 17. At this age girls are more interested in love and love making.

When it comes to shopping they are intersted in fashion so that they can attract guys with make-up and new clothes.