Need your wisdom
A question for the older folks with experience:
If you get to choose between two guys. You are more attracted to Guy A, but Guy B has been your friend for years and has put forth more effort to help you. Which one should you go for? My head tells me I should go for Guy B who I am mildly attracted to but I don't want to be with a person that I am not extremely attracted to. I keep thinking about Guy A. Or, should I just be single and wait for the love of my life to show up who has both of those qualities: attraction and support. But that may take a long time and he might not even show up at all.
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Some guys game is too good. Damn it. Even being aware of it isn't helping me resist him.
A strong woman takes advantage of help she can get from people around her but she doesn't rely on them for anything
She uses logic and manages her emotions
She offers help either because it is a business transaction or out of kindness. It is never because she hopes others will return the favour or out of fear of losing them
She has her own mind and thinks for herself and knows that she has to be the one who bears the consequences of her decisions