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    Nice guys are really not nice guys

    That is why women don't go for them. After they did something nice for you, they expect something in return in the future. They are pretentious and women are afraid they might change down the road. Guys who are a bit challenging comes off as more sincere and you know what you are getting.

    This applies to women as well.
    A strong woman takes advantage of help she can get from people around her but she doesn't rely on them for anything

    She uses logic and manages her emotions

    She offers help either because it is a business transaction or out of kindness. It is never because she hopes others will return the favour or out of fear of losing them

    She has her own mind and thinks for herself and knows that she has to be the one who bears the consequences of her decisions

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    actual nice guys or women don't expect anything back when offering something - they just do because it helps another or is their nature. anyone with a hidden motive might pretend to be nicer than they are to manipulate someone, but you can spot a player.
    When I tell the truth, it is not for the sake of convincing those who do not know it, but for the sake of defending those that do.
    William Blake

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    No fearoflove, those are not nice guys. If they want something or are manipulative, stay away from them. The real nice guys are reliable.

    Psychopaths can be the most charming people you can meet, until they take off their mask.

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    My lovelife improved after I quit being nice. But it is hard to keep the lies straight.

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