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    Deciphering texts from women

    Hi,

    I was out and about the other day and got this cute girl's number, asking if she wanted to hang out. We talked for a little bit and she said she was off Sunday so I told her we will do something then. I run into her regularly so it wasn't much of a surprise when I saw her the next night working. We chatted it up again. I jokingly asked her to come out with me knowing she wasn't able to. She couldn't because she was working so I reminded her about Sunday saying that if I didn't run into her again tonight then we should grab a drink tomorrow, and that I would text her about it.

    It's Sunday afternoon in Australia already so I texted her earlier today asking if she was still interested in going out. Her response three hours later "Hey! Unfortunately I can't today, but maybe another day " My initial response was to just chalk it up as a loss and simply responded "No worries. Yeah maybe another time." Then what do ya know I started thinking more and more into it, and now I've confused myself. I took it as her just nicely saying no, but is it possible she wanted me to set up another date and time? The damn smiley face is throwing me off!

    I don't know. Is there any other way for me to interpret that?

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    If I were her and I was interested, I would have said "I can't today, but I'm available on X, Y And Z. Do any of these work for you?"
    Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.

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    She's blown ya off dude. Keep your options open, ask other girls out.

    Some girls are just stupid that way....they are afraid of saying no not interested.

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    I think it could be a polite blow off too. Maybe is the key word. Maybe doesn't show much real interest in making new plans.

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    Yeah that's what I figured. Thanks for the help, ladies!

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