HI
I was invited to sleep over to my girlfriends house tonight, but during the week things are a bit rushed and it is making me feel like its all a massive effort.
Going home first, doing housework, packing clothes and food, and anything else needed (Toiletries, phone chargers etc). I enjoy seeing her and staying over, and what makes it worse is she is an early bed person too.
So I might get 30-45mins with her after we cook and eat dinner before bedtime.
I mentioned all this to her, and said I'd think about it, I enjoy our time together (not our first sleep over), but it feels rushed for the reasons above. Our sleep overs currently are very infrequent. We've been seeing each other off and on for years now. Broke up a couple of times previously as she was separated, but having trouble with the Ex and it ended our relationship a couple of times. This time around he is now out of the country for good, and we've been going well for the last 5 months. We know each other very well, good and bad.
The problem is, she said she likes the sleep overs (always at her house, I live with a housemate), but she isn't fussed if they don't happen.
So I'd like some advice on how to take this new info, and also is my attitude with being rushed a bad one ?
Thanks