Do ladies feel bad after a break up

[suddenlynothing]

I don't understand you lady folk because im a stupid male who has only recently realised thats LAY-dees own sex.

To the question:

Do you ladies feel bad about breaking up with some you actually feel in love with then out of love with, or is it easy because you know the next guy is simply around the corner?

I don't mean to offend anyone by this question its just a feeling i have, im happy to be corrected and think you ladies are wonderful, but im just trying to understand a little better.

[Starnique]

I feel very sad about a break up if I really loved the guy. Depending on why we broke up is what make me determine if its real easy to just "move on" to another guy. However as a woman I am strong when I need to be but breaking up is never easy when there is loved involved no matter the reason for me anyway. If I don't give a damn about him, its like whatever but for me if I love, I love hard so its not that simple but if its need to be done. At the end of the day, I'm going to do what I have to do, hard or not.
I put myself first and it'll be just like that Beyoncé song irreplaceable.

*And keep talking that mess, thats fine
Could you walk and talk, at the same time?
And it's my name thats on that jag
So go move your bags, let me call you a cab

Standing in the front yard, telling me
How I'm such a fool, talking 'bout
How I'll never ever find a man like you
You got me twisted

You must not know 'bout me
You must not know 'bout me
I can have another you in a minute
Matter fact, he'll be here in a minute (baby)

You must not know 'bout me
You must not know 'bout me
I can have another you by tomorrow
So don't you ever for a second get to thinkin'
You're irreplaceable*

[suddenlynothing]

I posted this else where on the forum but give it a read and she what you think? cheers

I wont bore you with too many details so the basics it is. My ex girlfriend [23/f] of 4 years broke up with me [27/m] over pretty much nothing, no argument just a text then that was pretty much it, said she needed time because she wasn't feeling it anymore.

Went to hers the next day, basically gave me a load of shitty excuses just to break up with me but then kept saying she didn't know how she felt.

So i left i'm not going to beg. I later messaged her saying we should meet up, she agreed and i said "how do you feel about us" and she replied with "i know i'm not suppose to be with you" obviously i was gutted so tried to message her with logic with what has been happening over the last few weeks she completely agreed with what i was saying but said it doesn't change the way she feels.

She has messaged me twice once to throw it in my face that she did this for me, still cares and thinks im an "awesome guy" but she could potentially cheat on me in the future, i said don't worry about it shit happens and it wasn't going anywhere anyway.

five weeks pass and she messages me again saying "how do i delete you from Google+" seems pretty pathetic to me so i reply "ask Google" then she replied "that's really mature". It carried on for awhile so i sorted it out and deleted her from mine and asked her to delete my number (don't know why she had it anyway) which i imagine she has but still hasnt from G+, probably because she never uses it, so why even ask me?

I'm looking for some advice as i'm feeling down about it and i don't want to go backwards, i dont want to get back with her but i do miss her and think about her a lot, i wake up most morning feeling like shit.

Thanks.