How soon to MOVE on?

[tanragagirl]

just two weeks after my abusive relationship with my boy friend ended I was already looking at other guys. At work I began questioning if this one guy was single and found him extremely attractive. Does this mean that i was never happy with my previous bf to begn with?

[basilandthyme]

I'm sure you were happy with him to begin with .....but then the real him started to show and you probably fell out of love quite some time ago. I've found that it's fairly easy to move on if you've done your grieving for the relationship while still IN the relationship.

That being said, it's still early days. Have fun, but proceed with extreme caution.