I don't understand her,what should i do?

[tommaas]

Ok so i met a girl i really like one month ago,we had a little chit-chat so everything seemed ok.Then i saw her again on the bus stop after 2-3 weeks we spoke and i told her to get the same route and she was like yeah lets go(she was with her friend though who seemed ok too)she recommended moving on foot so i agreed.We had a very good conversation during the whole walking,then she said ''wanna go sit somewhere ? '' i agreed and we sat on a bench at the nearest park.After that we had a long conversation for 2 hours where she was kinda open to me and shared a lot of things in common.We held hands all of a sudden and kept good eye contact,then we exchanged numbers and i took her home.I gave her a call(It was Thursday) after two days asking her if she would like to go out and she said that she would be missing both Saturday and Sunday so she said ''see you on monday then'' where she had class on the same building with me,i was like ok see ya then bye and have fun.
After 1 hour she sent me a text saying this : Hey...whats up...sorry if was kinda jerky with you that i told you can't go out...i didn't do it on purpose and there might be a chance i will not leave...so maybe i will be free for tommorow.So i called her the other day and she said she was on her way there and that she would have called me if she wasn't i told her to have fun and enjoy those two day then i said bye and hang up.So i saw her on Monday and she seemed she was not in the mood,she just said hi,we talked a bit and she said that her friend needed her to discuss and then left with her.I saw her the other day after that (Today) she was with her friend again,as i was waiting at the bus stop.She seemed good but like she didnt want to give me any attention i asked her if everything was ok and she replied with a gentle facial expression upon her.She said bye and left with her friend.Then the next day (Today)i was sitting in the hallway checking my phone,suddenly i raised up my head and there was her coming towards me and sitting next to me,we talked for 2 minutes and i acted like i don't care or really tough while she was talking to me,then she went back to her class saying cya and bye.I'm pissed off because it started all good she sent me that text too which i think she was honest and all of sudden she looks like she's trying to avoid me.What should i do ? I'm not desperate or something but i really like her.

[smackie9]

TBH you really don't know what is going on with her and in her personal life. She might be in the middle of a breakdown of an online LDR, or things are crappy with a BF.....she might be in the process of leaving someone or an ex is trying to patch things up with her....It may explain the instant hand holding, neediness etc....she is dying for attention because things are bad with her right now.

For now keep acting aloof, but keep an eye on her. If you engage some conversation with her be up beat for a very short time and then say you have to go. It's a bit of a dance but with a little time it may play out.

[tommaas]

TBH ? LDR ? I don't get what you're really telling me...she showed some interest there in the start and we held hands for a long time and the text that she sent me thing i didn't wait from her beign so honest,she also told me that she could stay up all night and talk with me she was really open to me that night i do believe that there's someone in the middle but ok.