fall in love again..

[creatieffjj]

yo,

I was wondering, I like a guy, and he liked me to..
the situation is quite complicated.
I thought I had no chance with him (that's what a friend told me)
So I kinda gave up on him..
after some time an other guy asked me out, and I thought I had to forget guy #1 so I said yes
here begins the weird part...
I realised that I still liked guy #1, guy #1 suddenly told me he liked me to...
me and guy #2 broke up...
meanwhile guy #1 thought he didn't had a chance with me because I had a boyfriend, and gave up on me...
and now he doesn't really love me anymore.. He said I'm like a little sister to him >> *damn*

BUT ANYWAYYY:
so my question is, is it possible that he wil ever fall in love with me again, or not??

[basilandthyme]

what is the time frame between guy #1 confessing that he liked you and then moving on?

And for what it's worth, this wasn't love.....real love isn't so transient. I think it was more just a spark of interest which died easily.

[creatieffjj]

It was about 2 months, but he told me that there were quite alot people who left him... that's why he learned to move on quite fast...
but when he confessed to me he told me that he already liked me for like a year..
So I wonder, why he gave up so easily...

[smackie9]

He has been hurt in the past, so he has learned not to invest his feelings. His ego was a little butt hurt as well because he felt like he was your second choice. This is why confidence in yourself is so important. Tip: If you want something you go for it, take the risk, or you will have missed opportunities.

If he did really like you he would have made full effort to ask you out, but the thing is....he didn't. So it might have been a good thing. It's possible he is insecure, and you never want to have an insecure BF trust me. They cause too much bs than they are worth. They can become controlling and jealous.

[creatieffjj]

He wanted to ask me out.. but before he could ask me out, did I got a bf, so that's why he didn't ask me out..

And, I know how it is to have an insucure bf.... and you're so right.... that is really annoying ><
but he isn't insucure, that's something I'm sure of...