Moving on with Facebook?

[tanragagirl]

I found this guy really attractive at work and well he found out through coworkers I liked him to. Upon discovering that he began sayig hi, smiling at me, doing things for me to notice him. BUT I had just gotten out of a terrible terrible relationship so when he began doing this I FREAKED and like ran away. I could not look him in the eye or even be the first to say hi because I do not know why I am scared.
Anyways eventually he thought I lost interest and stopped giving me attention
Now I regret it a bit. I know I need a break from dating to recover from my last relationship but I really like this guy. However he is also a co worker.
Should I add him on fb as a step towars talking to him or just leave it alone and ignore my feelings towards him" See My last boyfriend really lowered my self esteem and was emotionally abusive which is why I was afraid of this new guy when he showed interest in me. I and many others feel as if I should focus on myself for now and not get involved with anyone. I think this is a good sign that I am moving on from my last bf because now all I think about is this new guy! I even dress up JUST for him which i is really great for me.

Should I continue to get to know him or do you think I should keep this idea of havinf a secret crush on him" Maybe the crush will keeo my mind off my ex boy friend and stop me from going back to him. I am afraid that by talking to him I would get to know him and my crush on him will be gone consequently leaving me to fall back into missing my ex boyfriend.

[smackie9]

How about stop thinking about yourself for a few mins and realize you would be toying with this guy's feelings.....so not fair. Don't be some cock tease because you need a little emotional rescuing.

Gather your girl friends around you for emotional support instead of misleading some poor shelp into a rebound relationship.