What should I do ?

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I have stuck in this situation and I really need advice.
I had met a guy and we started with "friend with benefit" because we didn't ready for serious relationship, we also agree about this and we met each other for first 1 month.
After that I need to go back my home for holiday and stayed there for 2 months. The last conversation we made that when he back to China ( both of us all studied , work and live here now ) he will give me a call, and actually I never though that we will keep in touch lately and because we just "friend with benefit" who know he not getting fun some place else.
While I'm in my home, my friend told me he keep calling her and ask her about me, he even call me and we talked together. After I back to China , we met again and he was mad at me because I didn't reply his message and he was waiting me for 2 months - I don't know all of this is truth or not but actually it's make me feel happy.
We meet each other again, going out for dinner, watching movie together, cooking in his home...he always holding my hand all the times, hug and kiss me in public, every time when we talk sometime he told me to look at him in the eyes and talk to him, even he took Sth stuck in my teeth while we sit in the restaurant. 2 times we have party with our friends and he start to talk about want me to be his queen, told me I'm his type, I ask him some advice about making new tattoo with my roommate he said "your roommate not my gf so I don't have any problem where she want to make, but if my gf and it's you then bla bla bla", I said I don't like flower but he said if he give me flower in his way then will be different, he get angry because I like David Beckham and he said he gonna get back his muscle so I will like it ... I mean all these stuff I never believe is coming from him, maybe he drunk or start to say Sth just want make me happy and still keep me around him when he need me.
But I can feel I start to have feeling for this guy - the guy who is first time I though he is gay and didn't notice him, I even didn't give him number and told him to asking his friend's girlfriend if want to know my number and he did it, but my phone was broken so I told my friend didn't give it to him, I contact to him after 3 weeks and he still remember my name.
So I'm really confuse about our relationship right now, I don't know do I need to ask him again what going on between us ? Where is my standing in his place or I still his booty-call ? Do I need to wait until he say that he have feeling for me or I will wait and one day he told me that he already find the love of his life ? If I ask him do I really annoying, maybe I'll break our good situation right now
But the thing is he really take time to reply my message or really didn't keep texting or calling me. When we together we talk a lot of thing, about our family, his parent and sister, his work, plan in future...but we never actually talk anything about our past. And I can feel he also not open to talk about that or ask me.
We keep seeing and in touch almost 4 months now, next month we will go music concert together.
I like him and really want we can take a next step or at least I have clearly answer from him so I didn't need to make myself thinking or waiting for him. My friend want me to go out and finding new guys with her but I'm not really in the mood.
Please help me to give some advice.

[smackie9]

Stop giving him all the control, and just lay it all out what you want. If he gets flakey about it, then go out with your GF looking for new guys. TBH you should never start a serious relationship as a FWB. It can be difficult to be on the same page. You have to firmly express your expectations, and set up relationship boundaries.

How can you say it's a good situation? If it was you wouldn't be here asking how to change it.