I need some advice. I’ve been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4 months (I’m 23, he’s 26) I realize it hasn’t been long at all, but I can’t figure him out sometimes. Sometimes he is so loving and caring, he sometimes says cute things, the sex is amazing - best I've ever had, but then other times, it kind of seems like he could care less if I was in his life or not. I've never felt insecure in a relationship before and don't want to screw it up. I don't understand WHY I'm feeling unsure of his feelings. I don't FEEL like I need constant reassurance, even though that's what it sounds like. I just don't know why I feel like some days he's so into me, then other days it seems he doesn't care as much. Communication is big with me, but he's a self-proclaimed man of few words, which I'm not used to, as my ex was a man of many (many..many..) words.. which got annoying, but at least I always knew where I stood with him. I know everyone's different, and it's worth mentioning that my ex was my first love so it's been really weird getting accustomed to someone else, but I just don't know how to go about just ENJOYING the relationship instead of over-analyzing every little thing. I genuinely like this guy a lot and don't want to screw things up. Any words of wisdom for little ol' me? I just want to enjoy this without worrying. I have so much fun when I'm with him, but it's when I'm not that my mind goes crazy...