some advice please

[tsukubacpe]

Hello everyone, I would like your advice on a problem I am having.

I dated this girl for 4 years and things weren't working out too well so we decided to break it off. I have been single for 2 years and at the beginning of the break up it was very hard on me but with time things got easier. I began partying and going out with friends more often and that helped a lot with coping with the break up. A lot of times i find myself at home feeling extremely lonely, missing someone to hang out with and at times it gets depressing because me and my ex used to be together 24/7. I don't know what to do because I feel like this almost everyday. Throughout the 2 years I've met other women and have had fun with them but nothing serious but when I meet someone I start liking them A LOT and I cant get my head off of them and I feel like I'm trying to find someone to replace my ex so I don't feel like shit every day. For example, I met this girl a couple of weeks ago and never spoke to her again until Friday that a friend brought her to a club we were going to. At the club I danced with her and we were very touchy.. all of us came back to my place and her and I started making out and a lot of touching. Before she left I asked her for her number and she gave it to me but my problem is that I barely know this girl and I haven't been able to get her off my head.. Its been almost 2 days and shes constantly on my mind... I don't think this is normal..

Thank you.

[basilandthyme]

Yes, it's called lust and infatuation and is completely normal. The main thing is to recognise it for what it is and not confuse it with love.