Is she "sexually active" or just wrong signs?

[oneiricocelot]

So, if you have read my other thread, I was (still am I guess) interested in a girl a year younger than me, she's 17 and just finished school. I am a bit confused because signs show that she may be "out of my league". Like:

- She is very attractive
- She gets 400-500 likes on her facebook pictures, (she's not "slutty" in any way)
- The big majority of her likes and friends are male
- Lots of facebook comments are "hearts" by males, and she responds with "kisses".
- I was in the same school with her and some of my classmates said she has slept with a ton of men (I guess that's just because they are jealous or something like that)
- Her parents are divorsed and she's (probably) living with her mom


What do you think from the above bullets ???

[Erinesia]

Unless you are Justin Bieber(!), I really think your chances with this girl are slim. It's not because you aren't a good person, it's because she is clearly popular and can probably have almost any guy she wants.

My guess is that a lot of guys like her ... so you aren't alone. She probably has her pick so the question you need to ask yourself is ... why would she pick you over all the other guys?

If you think she would, then go for her. But, if you think the competition may be too stiff (and my guess is there is a lot of competition for her), then perhaps it would be better to set your sights on a girl who is less popular and more attainable.

I'm sure this isn't what you were hoping to hear, but, based on how you've described her, I think she is very popular and you will probably not be successful in winning her for yourself.

[anya_may21]

I wouldn't go off other people saying she slept with a ton of guys, that is gossip.

She could still be a virgin or only slept with two guys who were her BFs.

If you like her and want to ask her out, why does her being or not being sexually active matter? Not like you are going to have sex on a 1st date.

[oneiricocelot]

Thank you for your answers!! I appreciate it!

I should add that she had exams earlier, and her grades were very poor... I guess she's not a fan of studying